Everything has varying degrees of difficulty for different people. I can do some things with ease that others would struggle with. I struggle in social situations. It isn’t easy for me. At all. It’s not a choice I’ve made, it’s just how it’s always been for me. I have had to work very hard to be capable of functioning in social situations. So much so that people are often surprised to find out I’m a ball of anxiety. I’ve probably been guilty of admonishing someone for not wanting to or be able to do something that I find relatively simple. If I have ever made anyone feel that way, I apologize.